On Any Given Night

On any given night out with her friends, a woman will meet a dozen guys.

Some of them she will be interested in, others she will definitely not be interested in, and some she will only remember vaguely or not at all because they did nothing to stand out in her mind from the rest of the men vying for her attention.

There are some surefire ways to make it so that you stand out from the crowd and she definitely remembers you. One of the most important things to do is have a conversation with her that doesn?t include the classic items of where she works/goes to school, if she has siblings, etc.

These topics may be safe, but they are also overdone and boring. You want to have conversations that are interesting, fun and a bit spicy.

Keep current on the latest celebrity scandals, invite her to make up stories about strangers at the next table, or talk about some of the chick flicks that are currently playing. You will definitely get points for originality and she will remember you when the night is through.

You also want to be both confident and humorous. Doing these things is like walking a fine line, however. You don?t want to be overly confident because then you come off as an arrogant jerk. You also don?t want to be too funny because then you cross the line from funny to clownish.

You need to feel confident in order to act confident. If she turns you down, there are other women in the club to meet, so don?t get too down about any specific woman. If she doesn?t think you are funny, then she probably doesn?t have much of a sense of humor.

Just because something doesn?t work with one woman does not mean it won?t work with others. Women are attracted to men that appear confident and have an excellent sense of humor.

A thousand women?s magazines can?t be wrong about that. She will remember you if you are confident and have a great sense of humor.

While it is important to be honest with a woman about yourself, you should never whine about things that are going on in your life that are less than positive.

Do not tell her how much time has passed between dates, or that you have horrible luck with relationships, or that you are looking for a better job, apartment, car, etc.

Women have absolutely zero confidence in men that whine about themselves. Attractive men are confident men, and you want her to remember you for what is good about you, not what you whined about to her.

Getting too touchy when you first meet a woman or on a first date is not a good idea, but you can always hold her hand a bit. This gets her comfortable with you on a very basic level.

You can also do some creative things with her hand, including giving her a funny palm reading, or guessing what she does for a living by looking at her hand, or simply stroking her hand, massaging her fingers a bit, etc.

Don?t hold it for a long time, because it could make her uncomfortable. However, getting a little bit of physical contact can help make you stand out when the evening is over.