Ideas To Keep That Lovin? Feeling

For couples that have been together for a while, that crazy, hot magnetism that you feel at the beginning of a relationship fades a bit when you have been together for a length of time.

However, this does not mean that you can?t find innovative ways to spice things up a bit and bring back that intensity and excitement you first felt when you fell for each other.

One of the best ways to add some interest to your love life is to combine something romantic with something erotic. For instance, send her flowers, a bottle of champagne, or some sexy lingerie that you know she will like. That covers the romance angle.

For the erotic angle, enclose a note thanking her for the fantastic blow job she gave you last night or give her a sexy play by play of what you plan to do to her later when you get her alone. Not only will she feel pleased about the romantic gesture, she will be looking forward to your evening together.

Instead of having a picnic outdoors, have a picnic in your bed. Arrange some soft pillows, have a sexy movie you both love playing in the DVD player, get an ice bucket with your favorite kind of wine chilling in it, and lots of finger foods such as cheese, fruit, chocolate, mini biscuits, etc.

This way, you can feed each other and when one thing leads to another, you are already in bed. How convenient! Getting wet together is a good activity to do before having sex. Spend time in a hot tub, a bathtub filled with scented bubbles and wonderful oils, go for swim together, etc.

Being set together allows you to have unfettered access to each other?s bodies. Being wet makes you slippery and soft and it can definitely lead to other things. Keep in mind that having sex in water is not necessarily a good idea because the water removes a woman?s natural lubricants.

It is also not a good idea to force water into a woman?s vagina with sex in water, either. But using water as foreplay is a great idea. Have sex more than once. One of the best things about being a relationship where you live together is that you can have sex any time you want to.

This means that it doesn?t have to stop at once. Have sex first thing in the morning on the weekend, and then drag her back into bed a couple of hours later. The unexpected is always a turn on, and letting her know that you desire her all the time makes her feel wonderful.

Have an affair with your lover. Pretending that you are having an affair with each other can be very illicit and very hot.

Plan to meet in a bar at some hotel, pick up your lover with your best pick up line, take her upstairs to a hotel room and make love to her. Then, go back to work like nothing happened. Do it again the next week and see how much fun having an affair with your lover can be.