Avoid Bedroom Boredom

Are things getting a little boring the bedroom?

Do you wish you could think up some interesting ways to change things up a bit and make her wonder what you will come up with next?

Being imaginative and making changes to your sex life does not have to be difficult.

In fact, if you think about it, even making small changes to your routine can result in excitement and a new level of sexual energy and arousal.

Here are some great ideas for making sure that your lover is never bored in the bedroom. She will admire the fact that you want to make your time together memorable and interesting, not to mention totally hot.

Kiss with your eyes open. It is a whole new world, and it makes the connection between you instantly deeper.

Play truth or dare using the rule that everything must be about sex, the truths, and especially the dares.

Make love by candlelight only. This may not seem like a big change, but the dim lights increase intimacy, and make for interesting shadows on the wall. Plus, everyone looks sexy in candlelight.

Buy some very expensive and very tasteful lingerie for your lover and have her model it for you and then take it off very slowly, piece by piece. Or, make love to her while she is wearing it, and get turned on knowing what is under the scantily clad parts of her body.

Write a short, sensual story or fantasy idea for your lover and leave it where you know she will find it. It will be a great incentive for her to try it out with you.

Stay a night in a hotel room that has an in-room hot tub or very large bathtub. If you are really brave, drop in a very small amount of bubbles and turn on the jets. You will have bubble galore to add to your lovemaking fun.

Plus, staying in a hotel is like an invitation to have fantastic sex. Order room service, lounge around in the plush hotel robes and enjoy the feeling of decadence together.

Buy some books about lovemaking tips or tantric lovemaking positions and look at them together so you can try out the things that really turn you both on.

Spend the entire day finding ways to sexually tease your partner. Start by putting some sexy new panties in her bag. Send her flaming hot text messages all day. Leave her naughty voice mails.

When your lover gets home, take immediate control, take off her clothes and make love to her.

Spread out a soft blanket in the backyard out under the stars, and share a bottle of champagne and some great outdoor sex.

Make sure that you have made love in every room of your house so that no matter where she goes, she will have sexy memories of that room with you.

Make it a point to try one new thing in the bedroom every week, with each of you taking turns picking what you will try out.