French Kissing Basics

Everything starts with a kiss. Most people consider French kisses to be the ultimate in sexy kissing. But bad kisses do not necessarily lead to sex.

Good kisses might lead to sex. Fantastic kisses nearly always lead to sex. Fantastic French kisses pretty much guarantee sex, and great sex at that.

But how do you become a good French kisser? Contrary to popular belief, excellent French kissers are not born, they are made. They are made from practice, and being able to pick up on the nonverbal clues your lover is providing.

French kissing is all about technique. If you have good technique you can make her melt, and go absolutely weak in the knees. This may sound clich�d, but it is true. A truly sensual French kiss can turn a woman on like no other thing because the lips are a very sensitive erogenous zone for both women and men.

You should never start with French kissing right away. A French kiss is something to build up to, not begin with. You need to get her comfortable, and accepting of being kissed.

Start out with some slow, lazy kisses that start getting her in the mood. Frame her face with your hands, and guide her mouth to yours. Give her the kind of kisses that you like to receive so that she will learn what you like.

Lick her lips with your tongue, tracing the curve of her mouth slowly with your tongue. This really focuses her attention on your tongue and what you are doing to her mouth. When her responses become more aggressive, then you know it is time to introduce a French kiss or two.

Never stick your tongue clear down her throat. Start by introducing your tongue into her mouth a little bit of at a time. Dart your tongue in and out of her mouth, exploring it gently and allowing her to do the same to yours. One great way to make a French kiss exciting is to suck on her tongue.

Simulate the kind of sucking you do on her clitoris. She is sure to recognize it and enjoy the comparison. Another great French kissing technique is to suck on her upper or lower lip. Don?t suck hard, just suck gently.

Rub the edge of her jaw with our hands, and let them trail down her neck. Massage her collarbone, and rub your thumb along the edge of her shoulder. This is such a turn on, and women love to be sucked on and stroked as if you are enjoying something very tasty.

It also shows her that you are a creative kisser, which generally translates into being a creative lover. Wrap your tongue around hers, tasting and touching. You should be a bit aggressive, but not overly aggressive.

No woman likes to feel like her mouth is being attacked. You should let things progress slowly and naturally. The best kisses, French or otherwise, last a long time. Everything is about the kiss, and the way it feels to both of you.