Are You Boring Her In Bed?

Yes, women do get bored during sex.

One minute they are trying to enjoy themselves, and the next minute they are wondering about what color they should paint the bedroom ceiling.

So to keep her interest, there are some things you should definitely avoid during sex with her.

Mechanical sex will turn her off faster than anything else. If you do the same things in the same order with the same positions every time you have sex, it is going to become so predictable that she will be able to anticipate your every move. That is the height of boring during sex.

Sex should never be predictable. She should never know what you are going to do next. Even if you have a few favorite positions or signature moves, it still pays to change things up a bit.

Also, if you have sex without any passion, she is going to know it right away. No one has over the top, mind-blowing sex every time they get together.

But, a woman likes to be treated as desirable and like you can?t get enough of her, ever. So you need to avoid being mechanical and predictable and you need to show her how passionate you are about her. Otherwise, she might just stop showing up for the boring sex you are dishing out.

You should also never ask her permission to have sex. Women like men who take charge, and there is nothing wrong with taking charge when it comes to having sex. Don?t ask her o have sex, because she is likely to turn you down flat.

Tell her with smoldering looks, tempting touches and suggestive remarks whispered into her ear. Those things will turn her on a lot better than asking her if she wants to have sex. Show a little backbone and assume that she wants sex as much as you and then seduce her into it. It will lead to hot sex, not boring sex.

Vary the location in which you have sex. Having it in bed may be the most comfortable place to have it, but if you always have it in bed, then it is boring. Sex should not always be about comfort.

Have it over the back of the sofa, standing in the hall, on the kitchen table and on the hood of your car. Do it inside, outside, in the woods, at the beach, in a meadow, etc. Show her you have an imagination when it comes to sex and she will always be interested to see what you do next.

Finally, you want to go the extra mile once in a while. If you do the same routine every time, you are both going to get bored. If you never experiment, or try something new or add something to your sexual routine that is a special treat for her, she is going to be yawning before you are done.

If you only engage in foreplay for two minutes, try doing it for twenty. If you expect her to have sex anytime, try seducing her with an expensive dinner or giving her flowers.

Show her that you do have a romantic bone in your body, unlike a lot of other men. She will thank you for it in ways you probably can?t imagine.