Good Sex Ideas

For a man, generally good sex is any sex. Men are usually happy to get some and they quality is not always as important as the quantity.

For women it is a little bit different. The fact is that what a woman considers to be ?good sex? varies a lot from woman to woman.

So here are some ideas to think about when you want your lover to say that the sex was, indeed, very good.

Try out the whole roaring fire in the fireplace, bottle of good wine, a really tasty and expensive chocolate dessert and let the great atmosphere, good food and drink go to work on both of you. This is a great way to relax and indulge at the same time.

Start with a long, slow session of foreplay. Pretend like you have all the time in the world. Let you mouth and your hands trail over her body, leaving a fiery hot path of heated skin in their wake.

There is nothing like foreplay to turn a woman on, and she will appreciate the fact that you are not hurrying her to the main event.

Take charge of the situation. This does not mean that you should get rough with her. It means that you should know how to treat her like a desirable woman while still showing her what a hot man you really are. Or, if you are usually in charge, hand the control over to her.

Let her call the shots and decide what you are going to do in bed. Follow her every direction. Being in control of a big, hot man is definitely a turn-on for a woman. -Another good sex idea is to be spontaneous. Good sex is not always planned. Sometimes it is just about taking advantage of the moment.

If you are painting the office and you like how she looks with her hair up in a pony tail and a paint smudge on the butt of her jeans, toss the paintbrushes into the tray and pull her down on the drop cloth and have sex right there. Spontaneous sex is fun and is also good for your relationship.

Many couples that have been together for a while are always looking for new ways to spice up their sex life and have good sex. Role playing is a great tool for this. It lets both parties act out fantasies in the comfort and safety of a long time relationship.

This is often the best time for these kinds of sex games, because you can communicate openly and enjoy trying new things together.

Other couples like to bring music into the bedroom. Making love to different beats and different types of music can be really exciting. Plus, it covers up any noise you are making while you are having sex.

Still other lovers find that waking up their partner in the morning with slow strokes, soft kisses, and undulating bodies can really give the day a good start. Those moments when a person is still half asleep but getting their body stimulated are very enjoyable and generally lead to really good sex.