Does She Even Like You?

Sometimes it can be hard to read the signals that women put off in the dating scene.

You see a woman you find attractive, and she gives you her number, but did she do it because she likes you or for some other reason?

Is the woman that you talked to last night interested in you or did she just have no one better to talk to?

Is she playing hard to get or is she genuinely not into you? With so many women out there that play head games when it comes to dating, it can be hard to decide if the attention she gave you was real. Here are some surefire ways to know that she doesn?t really like you.

For instance, if she does not make eye contact with you and won?t allow you to be in close proximity to her, it is almost a sure sign she does not like you. If a woman likes you, she will be all about eye contact, and subtle touches that are designed to turn you on.

If the first thing she says is that she is not looking for a relationship, she probably isn?t looking for a relationship with you. Most women are looking for some type of relationship, so if she says she isn?t she just means not with you.

This is a nice way of saying that she doesn?t want to date you but doesn?t want to hurt your feelings, either. If she doesn?t return your calls or reply to your emails, she is also probably not that into you. Women will usually always return the call of a guy they are interested in.

Some women do play the hard to get card, but you should at least try to call her a couple times. If she doesn?t get back to you, move on. She isn?t interested and you don?t want to wander into stalker land.

If she is vague and undecided about making any concrete plans with you, she is probably waiting for some other offer for something better to do on a Saturday night.

Even worse is if she cancels plans with you regularly to go out with others. If she cancels plans with you to go out with her friends, you know she doesn?t like you, because most women will choose a man they are interested in over a night out with the girls any day.

So if you are on the bottom of her list of people to spend time with, you should stop trying to make plans with her because she doesn?t want to go out with you. A fate that is worse than death when it comes to dating is if she doesn?t laugh at your jokes.

If a woman likes a guy, she will laugh at his jokes even if they aren?t very good. A woman does not want to damage the ego of a guy she likes since they invariably take that kind of ego abuse hard.

So if you only get a courtesy smile when you tell your best joke, it is a sure sign she wants to look elsewhere for a relationship.