Signs You Are Headed For A Break Up

You have probably noticed lately that things are not quite right in your relationship. You can?t put your finger on it, but you know something is wrong.

Perhaps things are feeling a bit strange, and you are wondering if this relationship is going sour. Is she still into you or is she starting to look for someone else?

Here are some signs that she might be ready to dump you and that you are headed for a break up.

If she suddenly starts avoiding you, breaking dates, showing up late and generally not making the time for you that she used to, it could be a sign she is getting ready to break up with you.

She also starts avoiding your calls, not listening to your messages, and generally avoiding any type of communication with you.

Or, she could just be really busy at work. Don?t take one thing out of context unless there are a lot of other signs, too. If she cuts down on public displays of affection and does not show you the kind of affection she has in the past, this might also be a sign that she is less interested than before.

If the affection she used to give you was much more easily given, she could be thinking about giving you the heave-ho. Affection is an important part of a relationship, and if it is lacking, then she is not feeling as good as she used to about you.

When you start fighting about a million small issues in addition to fighting about the big things, maybe your relationship is in trouble. People who are falling out of love often feel less like smoothing things over and letting the little things go.

They also start to think that those little annoying things you do are more annoying and they start picking at you about them.

A relationship is usually also in trouble if she shows you a lot less respect than she used to. Perhaps you have noticed that suddenly do everything wrong.

She doesn?t like the way you wear your hair anymore, or the way you don?t wipe down the counters after you help with the dishes, and she doesn?t think your jokes are funny anymore.

When she finds fault with everything, it could be a really big sign that she is pushing you away. If you start noticing all these signs, it might be time to have a talk and sit down and communicate about what you are seeing and what she is feeling, or not. This is the time to be honest with each other.

It is better to end something now instead of drawing it out and prolonging the agony. If you do end up breaking up, it was probably meant to be. That may sound a bit harsh, but finding the right one is not always easy.

Any unhappy feelings that you have will eventually be in the past. Life is all about learning experiences and breaking up is one of them.